By no means am I an expert when it comes to relationships, so as I received feedback last week from my post titled,How To Be A Friend To The Opposite Sex (Part I)
Just to bring new readers up to speed, my post shared details of my casual relationships with Lisa that quickly went left. We dated and quickly grew to really care for each other before she hit me with the bad news. First, she was moving back to Louisiana. Second, she didn't want to be friends any longer. Why? Apparently, we had too much fun together.
No, seriously tho', she simply could not maintain a friendship with an ex. She didn't see the point of being emotionally attached to a man like that.
Initially, I took it personal. Then I tried to overstand, but honestly, I felt sliced up - Nubian ninja style. My ego and my heart took a blow. I couldn't completely understand her point of view. I can understand her moving and all, but things were perfect between us, therefore we should remain friends. Am I right? Maybe not.
In rekindling this story and sharing it last week, I appreciate the readers that "peeled" the layer of this onion a little more by sharing their thoughts/stories- yeah I needed this from you. Gracias.